So we have been here a little more than a week and so far have had a really good time! I've stayed with Nathalie twice in her mansion in Marseille :) , been sailing, to the beach, seen lots of friends, took Eva to the zoo (which was more like a hike on the side of a mountain trying to find animals) and to the market... Pretty good time so far :D
Living with the inlaws isn't so bad after all... Eva loves them both to death and they are really great with her! With this big house and huge garden, I would never survive without them! I just cant keep up with the kid! I need at least 5 more of me! But Pappie is careful and easy and Mammie is loving and likes to spoil... They speak English and are easy to get along with and I guess I'm pretty lucky after all :)
Next step is to learn French!!! Then I'll know if they feel the same way about me ;) or ....do I want to know????!!!
Me- American Mom. Him- French Dad. Learning something new everyday about life, motherhood, my spouce and how I do my best to keep it together.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Day 1
After a 9 hour flight to Amsterdam, proving to security that my child was indeed mine and not stolen, a two hour flight to Marseilles and not sleeping in 20 hours, I was ready to throw the towel in! It was rough but we finally made it!
The inlaws were at the airport waiting on us with "bisous". You know, the fancy little kisses you always see the people on TV doing. Its actually not as easy as it looks... there are rules to this bisous thing and anyway, that's another blog!
We arrived to out "new home" celebrated with a little local wine in the middle of the day (real French style) and watched Eva explore the garden and drag around her new best friend... her Pappie :)
Jet lag!!!!!!!!!! EHHH!!! Eva and I are finally on French time! (6 hours ahead of the USA)
The inlaws were at the airport waiting on us with "bisous". You know, the fancy little kisses you always see the people on TV doing. Its actually not as easy as it looks... there are rules to this bisous thing and anyway, that's another blog!
We arrived to out "new home" celebrated with a little local wine in the middle of the day (real French style) and watched Eva explore the garden and drag around her new best friend... her Pappie :)
Jet lag!!!!!!!!!! EHHH!!! Eva and I are finally on French time! (6 hours ahead of the USA)
Great News!! We're moving!!
So, those I talk to regularly knew that my family and I had planned a vacation to France to visit the inlaws for 2 months. Five days before time to go.... (Adrien)"Baby, I have some news! My visa got denied so looks like we're moving to France!!" WOW! Just like that!! First thinking he was joking... soon realizing that he was for real! I don't think that the shock actually set in until the day before time to leave. I knew that it had because I hadn't really stated packing and everything that Adrien said to me, I had to disagree with. Just being the typical hysterical woman that just finds out that she is having to move to the other side of the world and doesn't even speak the countries language! But worse, having to leave most of my precious shoes!!!!!
Five days later I'm on a plane with everything that I could pack up into 6 suitcases,with Eva, on my way to France! But not just moving to France. In France, living with my inlaws!
Five days later I'm on a plane with everything that I could pack up into 6 suitcases,with Eva, on my way to France! But not just moving to France. In France, living with my inlaws!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
This has been one of those weeks where I could have used some motivation!!! Every day I would tell my self that I was going to get all the things that I need to do done ..gym, laundry, errons, mani pedi that I so need... etc. I could go on all day!!
But, what I have done?? ... I managed to spend another $75 on Princess Eva at her fav store, Baby Gap, the second time this month!!
I seriously need help or she needs to pic a new favorite store!
Go figure!
But, what I have done?? ... I managed to spend another $75 on Princess Eva at her fav store, Baby Gap, the second time this month!!
I seriously need help or she needs to pic a new favorite store!
Go figure!
Summer Trends
Everyone wants to be "IN", so I thought that I would fill you trendy gals in on what I've been seeing here in the big city!
Turquoise!!! It's everywhere!! On everything!! From the pedicure all the way to the eye liner! If you wanna be "IN" clearly ya gotta put your self out there a little.
But, surprisingly I like it!
For the hairdos, the messier, the sexier! Try just some leave in treatment and let it go! For something a little more put together do a side braid. Cute, flirty and fun! I'll post soon on my tricks to master this do!
Out to play or on the town, throw on a jumpsuit!! This is one of my favs!! You can seriously wear rompers with heels to sex it up or flats! This is a must have this season! I found some hot buys at Forever 21, Urban Outfitters and Papaya.
Turquoise!!! It's everywhere!! On everything!! From the pedicure all the way to the eye liner! If you wanna be "IN" clearly ya gotta put your self out there a little.
But, surprisingly I like it!
For the hairdos, the messier, the sexier! Try just some leave in treatment and let it go! For something a little more put together do a side braid. Cute, flirty and fun! I'll post soon on my tricks to master this do!
Out to play or on the town, throw on a jumpsuit!! This is one of my favs!! You can seriously wear rompers with heels to sex it up or flats! This is a must have this season! I found some hot buys at Forever 21, Urban Outfitters and Papaya.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Terrible 1's
So, we have all heard of the "Terrible Two's", but for me, they have came a little early!!
Little Miss Eva, also known as The Little Monster, started strongly about a month ago. I get anything from a no, refusing to eat, to a full blown raging temper tantrum! I know, poor me! So, at first not knowing what to do with this child, I would simply ignore her. This clearly made everything worse! She would get even more mad and the fit would last even longer!
After about the millionth temper tantrum, I realized that I had to try something else or I was going to lose it!! So what did I do??
TIME OUT!! I know, crazy to think time out for a 14 month old but, i had to try something!
Here is what I did... When she started getting mad because she was not getting what she wanted, I would stop what I was doing, pick her up and put her in time out (on the couch, in her bed if she continued to not listen) come down to her level so we were eye to eye and calmly speak to her and explain why she couldn't have or do what she wanted then I would walk away. Every time she would get up, I would calmly put her back and tell her again, Ÿou can't do this and when your calm you can get up..."
It took about 30 times but finally she started getting the picture. Slowly the temper tantrums shortened and she knows that no means no.
It is important when doing this that you stay calm and stick with it. Other wise it is pointless and the child is more confused.
Little Miss Eva, also known as The Little Monster, started strongly about a month ago. I get anything from a no, refusing to eat, to a full blown raging temper tantrum! I know, poor me! So, at first not knowing what to do with this child, I would simply ignore her. This clearly made everything worse! She would get even more mad and the fit would last even longer!
After about the millionth temper tantrum, I realized that I had to try something else or I was going to lose it!! So what did I do??
TIME OUT!! I know, crazy to think time out for a 14 month old but, i had to try something!
Here is what I did... When she started getting mad because she was not getting what she wanted, I would stop what I was doing, pick her up and put her in time out (on the couch, in her bed if she continued to not listen) come down to her level so we were eye to eye and calmly speak to her and explain why she couldn't have or do what she wanted then I would walk away. Every time she would get up, I would calmly put her back and tell her again, Ÿou can't do this and when your calm you can get up..."
It took about 30 times but finally she started getting the picture. Slowly the temper tantrums shortened and she knows that no means no.
It is important when doing this that you stay calm and stick with it. Other wise it is pointless and the child is more confused.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Fitness Tips
Here are a few of my favorite fitness tips...
Early Morning Exercise
My favorite time to work out is first thing in the morning before eating. It is proven to be the most effective because your body will need energy and will get it from storage (calorie and fat). However, I recently learned that by drinking coffee 20-30 minutes before working out will increase muscle resistance and give you more energy. So drink up coffee lovers !!
Late Night Snacking
The worst time to snack is right before bed so try to plan your meal times. It is best if you eat 3 hours before bed that way your body has time to digest and store less fat.
Sweet Tooth
If you really want to lose weight then you gotta make some sacrifices! Stay away from all the junk food! No cream, cookies, chocolate or cocktails!! Instead, try salt less almonds, greek yogurt, fruit, sugar free jello or cottage cheese. I always give my self a party meal. I set one day of the week where I can eat whatever I want for being so good all week!
5 Is the Magic #
A diet does NOT mean to starve your self!! To achieve good results forget about the 3 meals a day! Up it to 5! By eating smaller portions and more frequently, your stomach will stay busy and your metabolism will stay up. Try to eat ever 3-4 hours and lots of protein after working out.
Early Morning Exercise
My favorite time to work out is first thing in the morning before eating. It is proven to be the most effective because your body will need energy and will get it from storage (calorie and fat). However, I recently learned that by drinking coffee 20-30 minutes before working out will increase muscle resistance and give you more energy. So drink up coffee lovers !!
Late Night Snacking
The worst time to snack is right before bed so try to plan your meal times. It is best if you eat 3 hours before bed that way your body has time to digest and store less fat.
Sweet Tooth
If you really want to lose weight then you gotta make some sacrifices! Stay away from all the junk food! No cream, cookies, chocolate or cocktails!! Instead, try salt less almonds, greek yogurt, fruit, sugar free jello or cottage cheese. I always give my self a party meal. I set one day of the week where I can eat whatever I want for being so good all week!
5 Is the Magic #
A diet does NOT mean to starve your self!! To achieve good results forget about the 3 meals a day! Up it to 5! By eating smaller portions and more frequently, your stomach will stay busy and your metabolism will stay up. Try to eat ever 3-4 hours and lots of protein after working out.
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